Wan has found it hard to understand why a man would do such acts that really displease them for only the fun of it.
Did you say he missed your Birthday to go to a cross dressing event? He joined the group and played an active part in its operation.
He spent a lot of money on toys and clothing while complaining he cannot save because of our trips etc.
I could never know your personal situation but I'm trying to understand where you're coming from.
He definetly is releived that I know and I do see a change in him.
If so I would be more upset about that than anything else.